Ask Better Engagement Questions

How to Ask Better Engagement Questions (and Why Local Wins)

June 30, 20252 min read

Are Your Engagement Questions Actually Working?

If your Instagram posts are getting crickets—or just likes from other agents—you’re not alone. Most real estate pros are told, “just post more”. But let’s be real: quantity doesn’t spark conversation. Quality questions do.

And we’re not talking about the same tired prompts you’ve seen recycled a dozen times. (“What’s your dream home?” is not going to drive DM-worthy responses in 2025.) If you want to build actual community—and maybe even get a lead or two—it’s time to get more strategic.


1. Instagram – The Visual Powerhouse If you’re a real estate agent, Instagram is non-negotiable. With over 2 billion active users, it’s the go-to platform for showcasing listings, building a personal brand, and connecting with buyers and sellers visually. Why Instagram Works for Real Estate 📸 Highly Visual – Perfect for sharing stunning property photos, virtual tours, and home staging tips. 📈 Engagement-Driven – Instagram’s algorithm favors Reels, Stories, and carousels, helping you reach more potential clients. 🔗 Lead Generation Tools – Features like link stickers in Stories, Instagram Shopping, and direct messaging make it easy for prospects to contact you. How to Use Instagram Effectively ✅ Post Reels showcasing listings and market updates. ✅ Use Stories daily to engage followers with polls, Q&As, and behind-the-scenes content. ✅ Optimize your bio with a link to your website or booking page. 📌 Source: According to Hootsuite, 90% of Instagram users follow at least one business account, making it a prime platform for real estate marketing.

What Actually Makes an Engagement Question Work?

Engagement isn’t just about getting a reply—it’s about making someone feel like you see them.

Here’s what works:

  • Make it easy. If answering feels like homework, they’ll scroll on.

  • Make it emotional. Think memory, identity, or aspiration.

  • Make it local. People love to talk about their towns.

Social media platforms prioritize replies and shares—so if you want your content to go further without paying for ads, start with better questions.


Steal These Real Estate Engagement Prompts

You don’t have to reinvent the wheel. Use these to fill your content calendar this month:

Local Love:

  • What’s the most underrated restaurant in [Your City]?

  • What’s one local spot that feels like home?

  • Which NH season is best—and why is it fall?

Nostalgia Hooks:

  • What did your childhood kitchen smell like?

  • What’s the weirdest house rule your parents had?

This or That:

  • Would you rather have a walk-in closet or a walk-in pantry?

  • New build or antique charm?

Real Estate Specific:

  • What’s the one non-negotiable feature in your next home?

  • What’s a total dealbreaker when house hunting?


3 Content Tips to Get More Replies

Mention your market by name. “Best takeout in Bedford?” beats “What’s your favorite takeout?” every time.

Talk to one person. Imagine your dream client is sitting across from you. What would you ask them?

Know your goal. Want comments? Ask easy, light questions. Want shares? Tap into emotion.

Final Take: Connection Wins

You don’t need to post more. You need to post smarter.

Engagement starts with showing up in a way that feels human. When your audience feels seen, they’re far more likely to respond—and remember you.

If you’re tired of writing from scratch every time, I made something to help.

Grab the 10 Caption Starter Guide—it’s built to help you post with clarity and connection. Just message me and I’ll send it your way.


Need expert help with your real estate social media strategy? White Birch Marketing specializes in creating powerful, lead-generating content for agents. Let’s take your online presence to the next level! 🚀🏡

Sarah Anstey, a passionate social media marketing expert with a deep understanding of the real estate industry, our agency is dedicated to helping agents and brokerages thrive in the digital world—so you can focus on closing deals, not managing social media.

Sarah Anstey

Sarah Anstey, a passionate social media marketing expert with a deep understanding of the real estate industry, our agency is dedicated to helping agents and brokerages thrive in the digital world—so you can focus on closing deals, not managing social media.

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